Late Nyt Love Post *Part 2* "A true guy will not risk making her cry"

There is this one post that many people keep mentioning to me. A lot of people want to know what happend with that late nyt love story. This post right here is the sequel you've all been waiting for but unlike a novel, this is nothing but true to the heart entry. In addition, I just want to say thank you to faith plus destiny and religion combined for the whole experience.

I want to begin with a quote:
“It takes a second to notice some one, An hour to like some one, A day to fall in love with some one, And a life time to forget them.” - Brittney Shea

Perhaps this quote describes how the events unfolded, it was a like that turned love that ended in a mission of trying to forget. However, I relate to this because much like the quote - a day with her that was months and months ago was what set my world around. It took seconds to formulate a greet that became a date and it turned into a quest of trying to be as best as I can be. I could argue that my best self is not enough to meet the social norm she is accustomed to but as I tried I realized, I needed to know who I am first. Also, Some may also argue that, I should move on - idealy searching for someone who values you for who you are.

There's a major flaw in peoples advice. Every single one of them voted to move on. Not one person said, I believe in you. You can do it. Instead, the advice was pretty much useless and I succumbed to procrastination and sometimes I would wake up in the morning and think to myself that I should sprint to her doorstep and say how I feel. Another flaw in the advice is to say she does not value me - I have the utmost respect for her because how she remains to be a friend amidst all the sticky drama.

Much like this quote...
"Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"
-William Shakespeare

This roughly translates into: Love is not true love when it changes when it finds a change in circumstances. This is a very relatable quote because for me what I value the most is that people give me a chance to show who I am before they judge me. That quote also talks about changing situations... All this time she's nothing short of a friend - this is why I want to apologize for making the mistake of trying to move on when actually it feels just perfect when we are friends that have fun together. The friendship is what carries this encounter to a whole new level. It's not pain or suffering - it's joy in knowing that you are there for her no matter what relationship you are having.

I learnt to become more mature because of experiences in life lately and everyones words made me a better person because I believed in myself and I was wrong about her. She is only seemingly hot-headed or not so very mannered because she wants to protect herself. Knowing more now, I understand as she can or could have been through a lot of things. I am very willing to accept where I landed in society because I know that she acknowledges I'm there - and me myself and I being thrilled to simply see her happy is a prospect that I'm sure all guys would wanna see with the girl they like.

It is equally true that I did not say to her how I feel, this means that I never received any official answers. What if she said yes? I hear you ask - it is always a matter of being mature and not stupid. As we grow older we learn and I can definitely support the idea of making decisions appropriately. As time passes it was more evident that I was no longer having the intent of dating her, instead I changed into just being myself thanks to an event a few weeks ago which made me truly discover i am. Before I get sidetracked, I basically found myself where I accepted who I am and dropped my continuous questioning. Because of this - I was able to just be who I am and not worry about perception and the ever changing society norms. This meant that I was able to become my teenage happy medium. A fearless self-expression. Confidence.

"Tyrone what's with all the quotes?" It's a metaphor of how everyone interprets something into their own understanding. I was trying to relate myself so much that I lost who I am and once I found who I was, we fell into the perfect place. I dropped the theme of me chasing her, me trying to date her and me trying to impress her. I just turned up one day as the blogger and surfer that I am and now She finally knows who I am and the guy who she first met carrying a skateboard is non-existent. In turn, we became and still is friends. It's the formula that makes her smile and the ending I hoped for. She's accepted me for who I really am.

"Love is friendship set on fire"

Jeremy Taylor wrote the quote above and I want to say that he is absolutely correct. When your friendship reaches peak, you may or may not work out romantically but your shared memories will always be there. A fire is a risk of destruction but also a friend of nature and survival. There's no denying that whilst many believe I should declare - I say that: I now know where I belong, it's simply as her friend and working together in missions. We often blame many things but I don't have any regrets on how events have turned out because

...a true guy does not have intentions, a true guy will not risk making her cry and a true guy will always give her a piggy back when she asks for one.